Hit The Books, Kid
Why The College Scholarship Is A Pipe Dream
Squeaky wheels get the grease. Everyone lauds the kid who grows up in, say, Philly, and stars for LMSC and Delco, then goes Division I at Colgate where he plays for a semester, drops out and signs with the Union. Awesome story. Really nice young man with a ton of talent. And a rare thing.
I'm a dad, I get it. Sam runs around with a soccer ball, and I wonder...But then I watch how he asks the dog, or his mom, or me to kick with him, how he giggles when he makes a "save" (rolls on the carpet) or laughs when he throws the ball up and it hits him on the head (what can I say, he's clearly my son...) In some regard, when creating a great soccer environment for kids, we have to accept the list of things we can't control. And in terms of the variables that lead to a Division I or professional career, that's just about everything. To say nothing of the sheer numbers; 99.5 per cent of kids are finishing their career at DIII or lower. The real question is how to make club and youth programs effective at both advancing the individual player's abilities and provide a fun and fulfilling environment.
Anyway, if your kid has some higher-level aspirations, encourage him or her. Support those goals. But be a responsible parent and understand the long odds. Richard Williams and Earl Woods are grinding their teeth right now - well, Williams is, anyway. There're some specifics here that might help any soccer parent manage expectations a little bit, as well as some food for thought on the value (cold, hard cash value) of youth soccer.